This post is going to be straying from the usual gun-ho EMS topics, and take it to a little bit more personal level. After all, if we don’t take care of ourselves first…how can we take care of others?
Well, its here. Its 2012. Another year, another chance, another fresh start. That being said, I’m here to offer a few personal & professional points to carry with you through 2012. They say a lot of New Years resolutions fail because they tend to be too broad, and nonspecific. In order for you to truly succeed with your resolution, make it smaller and quantifiable. Take the “I’m going to loose weight,” and make it “I’m going to be able to run five miles in 30 minutes.” Instead of saying your going to be nicer to people, actually open up your smartphone calender and block off time to go to a soup kitchen, or volunteer at a shelter. It will surprise you how quickly you will see your resolutions succeed.
Now that you have an idea on how to write your resolutions, lets think about where to direct your time and energy. This is when I tell you to analyze your professional, and personal lives.
Are they in unison?
……..Are you content?
……………….Are you HAPPY?
We work in a profession of selflessness. Day in and day out, we are asked to give up time. Time spent with our Husbands and Wives. Time spent with our children, and time spent with our friends. We miss meals, holidays, long weekends, vacations, and most importantly sleep.
I want you to think about a couple of questions:
1) Do you still see the joy out of being able to help someone in their time of need?
2) Do you feel like you are trapped, and are generally uninterested in your career any more?
If you answered no to question number one, or yes to question number 2 then it is time for you to move on. You don’t have to leave EMS, just get some sort of change to happen that will renew your love for your job. See about opportunities in training, (speaking from experience) it can be a great renewal to work with people who are excited about the career. You’d be surprised how quickly you will “get the wind back in your sails.” If Education isn’t your thing, then try a change of scenery. Bid on another station, see about cross-training so you can work in dispatch. These are just a few things that you can see about changing at work before you loose all faith in your specific Public Safety profession.
Most importantly, remember those family members, friends, and other various loved ones I talked about earlier? See them. I recently had a 2 week stretch where I didn’t work ANY overtime above my 48 hour schedule. I felt like I had weeks off. I was used to having “hours” off here and there to make it seem like days, but after resting and stuff it really was just hours. I spent time with my girlfriend, friends from college, family members, and people that really do make life seem enjoyable. That happiness is something that your patients, and your coworkers will notice, because no matter how hard you try it is not something that you can hide.
A sense of contentment is what will bring this profession into the next level. If you are contsantly talking about how being a Paramedic isn’t good enough, or is “just a stepping stone,” then that is all it will ever be. If you can’t find the enthusiasm in your job, then why even do it at all?
What ever holiday it is that you celebrate, I hope it was one filled with happiness.
Stay safe in 2012, we lost enough brothers and sisters last year.